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Danielle The Dating Coach: Mission, Values & Unique Selling Points

Based on "The Rules" philosophy and your certification

 

 

Mission Statement

Empowering women to transform their love lives through time-tested, strategic dating principles that prioritize self-worth, create magnetic attraction, and lead to lasting, committed relationships.

Alternative versions:

"Helping women date with confidence, clarity, and intention—so they attract partners who truly value them."

"Guiding women from dating frustration to relationship fulfillment using proven strategies that have worked for millions worldwide."

 

Core Values​​

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  1. Self-Worth First

  2. You are the prize. Every strategy begins with knowing your value.

  3. Strategic Patience

  4. Great love is worth waiting for—and worth doing right.

  5. Healthy Boundaries

  6. Clear limits create respect and genuine desire.

  7. Mystery & Intrigue

  8. Maintaining allure keeps attraction alive.

  9. Intentional Dating

  10. No more guessing games—date with purpose and direction.

  11. Timeless Wisdom

  12. Proven principles that transcend trends and technology.

  13. Transformation Over Quick Fixes

  14. Real change requires practice, commitment, and consistency.

 

Unique Selling Points â€‹

1. Certified Rules Dating Coach

"I'm not just sharing opinions—I'm trained and certified in a methodology that has helped over 2 million women find love."​

2. A Proven, Structured System, Unlike generic dating advice, you offer 35 specific, actionable rules—a complete framework, not vague suggestions​

3. Counter-Cultural & Refreshingly Different​-"In a world of 'just be yourself' advice that isn't working, I teach a strategic approach that actually gets results."

​4. Timeless Principles, Modern Application

5. Focuses on Attraction & Commitment-Not just "getting dates"—but attracting quality partners who pursue, commit, and stay.

6. Empowerment Through Boundaries-"This isn't about playing games—it's about respecting yourself enough to let the right person rise to the occasion."

 

THE RULES HAVE BEEN:

A New York Times Bestseller

Translated into 27 languages

Proven across decades and cultures

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 Taglines

"Date Smarter. Love Better."

"Become a Woman Men Commit To."

"The Rules Changed Everything—Let Me Show You How."

"Strategic Dating for Lasting Love."

"Stop Chasing. Start Attracting."

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My Story

I know what it's like to feel frustrated, confused, and exhausted by modern dating. The endless swiping. The mixed signals. The situationships that go nowhere. The constant wondering: "What am I doing wrong?"

I tried everything—being more available, being less available, playing it cool, being completely open. Nothing worked consistently. Until I discovered The Rules. At first, I was skeptical. This approach seemed so different from everything I'd heard. But I was desperate enough to try it—and everything changed.I went from confused and constantly disappointed to confident, in control, and finally attracting the kind of commitment I'd always wanted. The transformation was so profound that I knew I had to help other women experience the same breakthrough.That's why I became a Certified Rules Dating Coach—trained in the exact methodology from the bestselling book that has helped over 2 million women worldwide find lasting love.

 

Why I Do This Work

Every day, I watch smart, successful, beautiful women struggle in their love lives—not because something is wrong with them, but because no one ever taught them how dating actually works.

We're told to "just be ourselves" and "it'll happen when you least expect it." But that advice leaves women:

Over-investing in men who aren't investing back. Accepting crumbs when they deserve the whole cake

Feeling powerless in their own love stories. 'm here to change that.

I teach women a strategic, proven approach that puts them back in the driver's seat—not by manipulating or playing games, but by honoring their worth and letting the right man rise to the occasion.

 

My Credentials

Certified Rules Dating Coach – Trained in the methodology from the New York Times bestselling book

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My Philosophy

"You are the prize. My job is to help you believe it—and act like it."

I believe that:

Self-worth is the foundation of every great relationship

Boundaries create attraction, not distance

Strategic patience leads to lasting commitment

The right man will pursue you—if you let him

 

Ready to Transform Your Love Life?

If you're tired of dating the hard way and ready to learn what actually works, I'd love to help you.

[Book a Consultation] | [Explore My Services]

 

 

2. SERVICES PAGE

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Work With Me

Finally—A Dating Approach That Actually Works

You've read the articles. You've listened to the podcasts. You've asked your friends for advice. And yet... you're still stuck in the same frustrating patterns.

It's time for something different.

As a Certified Rules Dating Coach, I offer personalized guidance based on a proven system that has transformed the love lives of millions of women. This isn't generic advice—it's a strategic framework tailored to your unique situation.

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Service Options

 

DISCOVERY CALL – Free / 15 Minutes

Perfect for: Women curious about The Rules approach

Quick assessment of your current dating situation

Overview of how The Rules methodology works

Determine if we're a good fit to work together

[Book Your Free Call]

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 SERVICE ONE- SINGLE SESSION – [Price]

  • Perfect for: Specific dating dilemmas or quick guidance

  • What's Included:

  • 60-minute private coaching session

  • Analysis of your current dating situation

  • Personalized Rules strategies for your challenges

  • Actionable next steps

  • Email follow-up with session notes

  • Ideal for questions like:

  • "He hasn't texted in 3 days—what do I do?"

  • "How do I handle the first few dates?"

  • "Am I doing something wrong?"

  • [Book a Single Session]

 

 TRANSFORMATION PACKAGE – [Price]  Most Popular

  • Perfect for: Women ready for a complete dating makeover

  • What's Included:

  • 4 private coaching sessions (60 minutes each)

  • Deep dive into all 35 Rules and how to apply them

  • Personalized dating strategy based on your goals

  • Text/email analysis and response guidance

  • Dating app profile review and optimization

  • Unlimited email support between sessions

  • Accountability and encouragement throughout

  • You'll Learn:

  • How to create magnetic attraction from the first interaction

  • The art of strategic communication (texting, calling, planning)

  • Setting boundaries that inspire respect and pursuit

  • How to identify high-quality men vs. time-wasters

  • Moving from casual dating to exclusive commitment

[Apply for the Transformation Package]

 

VIP ITENSIVE – [Price]

Perfect for: Women who want accelerated results with premium support

What's Included:

  • 8 private coaching sessions (60 minutes each)

  • Everything in the Transformation Package PLUS:

  • Priority scheduling and extended sessions as needed

  • Voice message support (M-F) for real-time guidance

  • Monthly check-ins for 3 months after completion

  • Exclusive bonus materials and resources

[Apply for VIP Access]

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Full review of your profiles with optimization recommendations

[Price]

 

Text & Email Review

Send me your conversations—I'll tell you exactly what to say

[Price]

Emergency SOS Call

30-minute urgent session for time-sensitive situations

[Price]

 

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Kind Words From Clients

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"Before working with Danielle, I was always the one chasing. Now I understand how to inspire a man to pursue ME. Game changer!" — Sarah, 34

 

"I was skeptical at first, but The Rules completely transformed how I date. I'm now in a committed relationship with a man who adores me." — Michelle, 29

 

"Danielle helped me see my patterns and gave me a clear roadmap. For the first time, I feel confident and in control of my love life." — Jessica, 41

 

Ready to Get Started?

[Book Your Free Discovery Call]

 

Not sure which option is right for you? Let's chat and find the perfect fit.

 

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HERO SECTION

 

Stop Chasing Love. Start Attracting It.

You deserve a man who pursues you, commits to you, and chooses you—every single day.

 

As a Certified Rules Dating Coach, I teach women the proven strategies that have helped over 2 million women worldwide transform their love lives.

[Book a Free Discovery Call] | [Learn More]

 

THE PROBLEM SECTION

Tired of Dating That Goes Nowhere?

You're smart. You're successful. You have so much to offer.

So why does your love life feel so... hard?

  •  You meet someone promising, then they slowly fade away

  •  You're always the one putting in more effort

  •  "Situationships" that never turn into real relationships

  •  Feeling confused about what men actually want

  •  Starting to wonder if something is wrong with you

  • Here's the truth: Nothing is wrong with you.​ You just haven't been taught the strategies that actually work.

 

THE SOLUTION SECTION

There's a Better Way to Date

The Rules is a time-tested methodology that has:

Sold over 2 million copies worldwide
Been translated into 27 languages
Hit the New York Times Bestseller list
Created countless success stories and happy marriages

 

This isn't about playing games or being someone you're not.

It's about knowing your worth, setting healthy boundaries, and allowing the right man to step up and pursue you.

And I'm here to teach you exactly how to do it.

 

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TRANSFORMATION SECTION

Imagine Your Dating Life 90 Days From Now...

 You feel confident and calm—no more anxious overthinking
You know exactly how to respond to texts and plan dates
Men are pursuing you instead of the other way around
You've set clear boundaries that inspire respect
You're attracting quality men who want commitment
You finally feel in control of your love story

This transformation is possible. I've seen it happen again and again.

 

CTA SECTION

Ready to Transform Your Love Life?

Your journey to confident, intentional dating starts with a single conversation.

[Book Your Free Discovery Call]

15 minutes. No pressure. Just clarity on your next steps.

 

4. FAQ PAGE

 

Frequently Asked Questions

What exactly are "The Rules"?

The Rules is a dating methodology created by Ellen Fein and Sherrie Schneider, first published in 1995. It's a set of 35 strategic principles designed to help women date with confidence, set healthy boundaries, and attract committed relationships. The book became a New York Times bestseller and has sold over 2 million copies in 27 languages.

Isn't this just "playing games"?

Not at all! The Rules aren't about manipulation or deception. They're about:

  • Knowing your worth and acting accordingly

  • Setting healthy boundaries from the start

  • Allowing space for a man to pursue you

  • Protecting your heart while getting to know someone

Think of it as dating with intention and self-respect—not games.

Do The Rules still work with modern dating apps?

Absolutely! While the original book was written before dating apps existed, the core principles are timeless. I specialize in helping women apply The Rules to today's dating landscape—including apps, texting, social media, and more.

What if I've already broken The Rules with someone?

It's never too late to start! While it's ideal to begin fresh, I can help you assess your current situation and create a strategy moving forward. Sometimes a reset is possible; other times, it's best to apply what you've learned to new connections.

How is coaching different from just reading the book?

Reading the book gives you the principles. Coaching gives you:

  • Personalized application to your specific situation

  • Real-time guidance when you're unsure what to do

  • Accountability to actually follow through

  • Expert interpretation of confusing scenarios

  • Support and encouragement throughout your journey

 

How long until I see results?

Every woman's journey is different, but most clients notice shifts in their confidence and dating experiences within the first few weeks. Lasting transformation typically unfolds over 2-3 months of consistent practice.

Is this only for women seeking marriage?

The Rules are designed for women seeking committed, long-term relationships—whether that means marriage or a serious partnership. If you're looking for casual dating, this approach may not be the right fit.

What if my friends/family think this is outdated?

One of The Rules is literally "Do The Rules Even When Your Friends and Parents Think It's Nuts!" 

The truth is, results speak louder than opinions. When your loved ones see you happier, more confident, and in a healthy relationship, they'll understand.

Do you work with women of all ages?

Yes! I work with women in their 20s, 30s, 40s, 50s, and beyond. The principles apply whether you're new to dating or getting back out there after divorce or loss.

 

 5. THE RULES OVERVIEW PAGE

 

The 35 Rules – A Glimpse Into the Method

The Rules aren't random tips—they're a complete system for dating with confidence and attracting lasting commitment.

Here's a preview of what you'll learn:

 Mindset Rules

  • Be a "Creature Unlike Any Other"

  • Love Only Those Who Love You

  • Accentuate the Positive

 Communication Rules

  • Don't Talk to a Man First

  • Don't Call Him and Rarely Return His Calls

  • Always End Phone Calls First

  • Don't Tell Him What to Do

Dating Rules

  • Don't Accept a Saturday Night Date After Wednesday

  • Always End the Date First

  • How to Act on Dates 1, 2, and 3

  • Fill Up Your Time Before the Date

Relationship Progression Rules

  • Don't Rush Into Sex

  • Don't See Him More Than Once or Twice a Week

  • Don't Open Up Too Fast

  • Let Him Take the Lead

 Boundaries & Standards

  • Don't Date a Married Man

  • Don't Live with a Man

  • Stop Dating Him if He Doesn't Buy You a Romantic Gift

  • Don't Expect a Man to Change

Consistency Rules

  • Practice, Practice, Practice!

  • Don't Break The Rules

  • Do The Rules Even When Others Think It's Nuts

Want to learn how to apply all 35 Rules to YOUR dating life?

[Work With Me]

 

6. CONTACT PAGE

Let's Connect

Ready to transform your love life? I'd love to hear from you.

 Email: [your email]
Instagram: [@DanielleTheDatingCoach]
Location: [City/Virtual Coaching Available Worldwide]

Book a Free Discovery Call

 

Not sure where to start? Let's chat for 15 minutes about your dating goals and how I can help.

[Schedule Your Call]

Send a Message

Have a question before booking? Fill out the form below and I'll get back to you within 24-48 hours.

[Contact Form]

I respect your privacy. All inquiries are completely confidential.

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